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Younger Women Dating Older Men

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Younger women dating older men is normal. Not 20 year olds dating 70 year olds, but 25 year old women dating 35 year old men. Or 45 year old women hooking up with 55 year old men. 

Specific younger women older men dating sites are few and far between, but most adult dating sites, including AdultFriendFinder, provide you with the ability to seek out potential partners by age.

If its quite noticeable that the age range that women enter on dating sites are 5 normally in a range that goes from 5 years younger than they are to 10 years older. And as women age, their age range increases. 

The exception of course are "Cougars". These dating women seeking men are typically focussed on younger men - often much younger men. "Toy Boys" in fact.  

While luck often plays a part in matters of the heart, younger women seek out older man for many reasons. 

It may be big news to some guys, but women mature faster than men. In their twenties many women get bored with the infantile behaviour of the guys they grew up with. They want to be with a man who they can related to. Enter the older man.

Women who may never have had a father can look on older men as a father figure. Whether that kind of dependency can lead to a long term stable relationship is debatable, but in the short term at least it can be a mutually beneficial arrangement. The experience of the guy rubs off on the girl, and the guy gets an ego boost because the girl is looking up to him.

Insecure younger women can learn about self confidence from older men. The older man seems wiser. They know themselves better. The women gets to "walk the walk" by watching a master at work.

Typical younger women - older men sexual relationships are often very positive as well. Mature men have had more experience with sex - they know how to make love to women. And typically they stay awake afterwards! By comparison young guys tend to be "wham bam thank you ma'am" and then roll over and go to sleep.

The security that older men can offer younger women is a driver for some relationships. This may not be the best basis for a relationship - as soon as the women feels secure then the shine can go off the relationship. 

Older guys typically have better manners than younger men. Manners and chivalry matter to a lot of women. Even online! Being polite and displaying good manners does not mean guys have to stop being a man's man. Far from it. 

One last observation. Modern dating women seeking men are conditioned to stand on their own two feet. And they normally expect their men to be able to do the same. So a 25 year old who is still living at home is a pretty second rate catch when compared to a 40 year old with his own home and an apartment. 

With more younger men staying at home longer no wonder there is an increase in younger women dating older men! 

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