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Men Dating Younger Women

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Men dating younger women is something that has been around forever. Older men can represent security for younger women. Very old - and rich - men offer another form of security for younger women - if they can get past the idea of a prenuptial agreement.

For the guy, dating a younger women makes sense from several points of view. Embedded in our genes is the need to procreate. A younger woman is more likely to be able to bear children and sub-consciously this matters - even if it is the last thing on conscious minds.

And, if you are into power tripping and bling, then dating someone younger than you is a way of telling the world "I have succeeded - look at me". Of course the private reality and the public display can be very different things. 

What starts out well can come to grief for several reasons. Here's why - from the guy's point of view:

• If you are from different generations, you may have very little in common. She may look good but you have nothing to talk about.
• You're not getting any younger. If you look like a raisin, simply being with a younger woman will not turn you into a fresh and juicy grape.
• If your relationship is based on your wealth and your money runs out, why would a youthful beauty want to stay with you?
• You're asleep by 10pm - just as she is ready to go out on the town. How long before she meets a young stud?
• Your world views are different. You may remember black and white TV and party line telephones. She may have never known anything else but an Internet-centric world.
• You have different goals and interests - you hanker for Vivaldi's Four Seasons or the Rolling Stones - she is into heavy metal mosh pits.
• Your kids are way gone - she wants some.
• You'll probably die way before she does leaving her a widow in (say) her 50's.

and on it goes...

So what do you do? Start dating divorced woman your own age? Just continue dating attractive women for as long as you can? Valid options from one perspective, but probably not long term solutions. Meeting someone around your own age that shares your interest is a good start. Using AdultFriendFinder is a good start if you want to meet dating women seeking men.

Of course there is an alternative to men dating younger women - older women looking for younger men. It might sound a little strange, but if a women several years older than you is chasing guys younger than you, chances are her lights are still on and assuming you are compatible in other ways, you can probably look forward to a wonderfully active sex life AND have someone to share your life with who actually cares about you as a person.

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